” Is it possible, in the final analysis, for one human being to achieve perfect understanding of another?
We can invest enormous time and energy in serious efforts to know another person, but in the end, how close can we come to that person’s essence? We convince ourselves that we know the other person well, but do we really know anything important about anyone? “
~The Wind-up Bird Chronicle
This lines made me realize myself. Don’t take my words as those spiritual words. It made me realize that I think about this things too. I am the type of person who takes care to know about people they talk to and think too much what they think about you. I like and try to be that friend who knows about their friends. I don’t want myself to stand below my friends expectations.
I feel its natural if a person expects something from someone. There should be no problem if friends have expectations from each other. I have felt that when a person stands on your expectations your connection with that person just gets stronger. I believe that those real friendship exists still today. Its all about matching thoughts and how strong your connection is with that person.
Next year most of my friends will go to other cities and we will loose our day to day contact. And I don’t want our friendship to weaken due to distance. Actually some of my friends are already in other cities and on the good note I have managed our bond to be intact. And I hope I will be able do so with all my friends. The actual reason is I HATE losing friends. I don’t want to loose any.